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Crystals For Lilith And Harnessing Lilith Energy

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I often turn to crystals to help me embody the energy of a deity. The crystals for Lilith in this post will help you to do the same.

The crystals for Lilith energy will be red or orange fiery crystals associated with lust and sex, like carnelian, garnet, and red jasper. You can embody Lilith aspects like sexuality, rebellion, and self confidence when you choose the right crystals.

Harnessing the power of this dark goddess is useful for activists and all women.

Lilith can help us to tap into our inner anger, or she can help us heal sexual trauma.

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Who Is Lilith?

According to some, Lilith was the first wife of the first man, Adam.

Unlike Eve, she was said to have been formed from clay. That means she was made from the same stuff as Adam.

Being made from the same material as Adam, Lilith thought she surely should be equal to him.

But when he demanded that Lilith lay beneath him during sex, she flew from Eden, never to return.

As she left Eden, she was cursed to give birth to thousands upon thousands of demons.

This curse, in these myths, made her bitter towards the daughters of Adam and Eve.

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She would seduce their husbands and kill their children out of jealousy and rage.

But that myth has obvious issues.

It is true that Lilith, and the Lilitu, are known as demons far back into ancient times.

But those that work with Lilith see her very differently.

They see her as a liberator of women, as a feminist that helps women to unlock their inner power and sexuality.

Lilith energy is unlike any other goddess. She can be full of rage and fury, but with those that are devoted to her, she can be kind.

Her guiding hand is strong, but it isn’t cruel. She holds much esoteric wisdom for any woman that chooses to work with her.

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What Does Lilith Represent?

Lilith has many myths. Most of these myths are modern, but some are ancient.

From both modern and ancient myths, we can begin to glimpse at Lilith’s true energy and her magical aspects.

Lilith represents feminine mysteries. The same feminine mysteries that causes men to fear and distrust us.

She also represents rebellion, especially against unjust rules.

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She is the queen of political rebellion, especially uncivil and violent resistance against injustice.

Behind every female activist is Lilith energy, guiding them through their anger.

Lilith also represents empowered female sexuality. Taking control over your own body, and your own orgasm.

In that way, she represents pleasure and joy.

As she flew from Eden, she came to represent freedom and feminism.

Freedom from patriarchy and male rule is important to her.

Any woman that is working to leave an abusive partner would do well to work with Lilith. She will empower them, giving them the push they need to get out of that situation.

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Crystals For Lilith Energy

One of the easiest way to embody Lilith energy and tap into it wherever you are is by using a crystal associated with her.

These crystals hold the same rebellious or sexual energy that she does.

Many of these crystals can be extremely potent in the right hands.

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Carnelian recharges the sacral chakra, which is the chakra associated with sex.

This crystal will bring more energy and joy to sexual activity.

It helps to remove any blockages that turn sex into a less enjoyable activity.

This stone is also useful in powering up your inner anger and using it for something important. For that reason, this is a great crystal for activists.

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Garnet improves intimate relationships by increasing passion and excitement between two people.

A garnet left near your bed heals your lower chakras.

Lilith wants consenting adults to truly enjoy themselves and each other in the bedroom. This crystal can help that happen.

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Red Jasper

Red jasper taps into that deeply sexual energy of Lilith.

If you have experienced sexual trauma in the past, you might find that it is hard to open up.

Red jasper allows you to embrace your natural libido, and makes sex feel even better.

Decorative image of activists harnessing Lilith energy. Maybe they should use crystals for Lilith.

Smoky Quartz

Whenever you are using crystals to tap into Lilith energy, you should keep smoky quartz nearby as well.

Smoky quartz helps us to utilize anger and direct it towards a productive goal.

Lilith energy can sometimes overwhelm us with anger. It’s important to have help controlling that explosive energy, or else you might do something you regret.

Smoky quartz will mute the energy of these crystals just enough to allow you to release pent up anger, frustrations, and resentments.

Crystals For Lilith For Sexual Energy

As seekers of spiritual wisdom and personal growth, we often find ourselves exploring the world of crystals and their unique healing properties. Today, we delve into the energy of Lilith and how specific crystals can help us connect with this powerful and transformative figure. Lilith represents the untamed and wild feminine energy, and she has been a symbol of sexuality, independence, and desire for centuries.

By harnessing the energies of these crystals, we can tap into Lilith’s essence and invoke our own sexual energy, creativity, and personal power. Here are five crystals that are perfect for connecting with Lilith and empowering your sexual energy.


Known as the “stone of passion,” garnet is a powerful crystal for connecting with your sexual energy. Its deep red hues resonate with the root chakra, stimulating sexual desire and awakening your primal instincts. Meditate with a garnet in hand or wear it as jewelry to ignite your sensual self and strengthen your connection with Lilith.


Carnelian’s vibrant, fiery energy is perfect for activating your sacral chakra and embracing your inner sensuality. This crystal can help you release inhibitions and embrace your true desires, while also promoting self-confidence and courage. Use carnelian to tap into Lilith’s fierce energy and celebrate your sexual expression.

Black Obsidian

Black Obsidian is a powerful protective stone that can help you face your shadow side and embrace your sexuality without fear or shame. As a grounding stone, it connects you with your inner strength and wisdom, allowing you to navigate the complexities of desire and passion. Keep black obsidian close when exploring your sexual energy to shield yourself from negative energies and stay rooted in your truth.

Rose Quartz

While Rose Quartz is often associated with love and romance, it is also an essential crystal for self-love and self-acceptance. Embracing your sexual energy starts with loving and accepting yourself unconditionally. Work with Rose Quartz to open your heart and heal any emotional wounds that may be blocking your connection with Lilith and your own sensuality.

Lapis Lazuli

Lapis Lazuli is a powerful crystal for deepening your intuition and connecting with your inner wisdom. It can help you access your innate sexual energy by tapping into your intuition and embracing the wisdom of Lilith. Use Lapis Lazuli during meditation or wear it as jewelry to enhance your self-awareness and trust in your desires.

Incorporating these crystals into your spiritual practice can help you connect with Lilith’s energy and empower your sexual energy. Remember that embracing your sexuality is an essential part of your spiritual journey, as it connects you with the divine feminine and helps you uncover the untamed, wild energy within. Embrace Lilith and her transformative power, and let these crystals guide you on your path to self-discovery and self-expression.

Working With Lilith

If you would like to learn more about Lilith, i wrote a blog post about how to decorate an altar in Lilith’s honor.

These crystals would fit well on a Lilith altar.

Lilith is an interesting goddess to work with, with much to teach most people.

If you have the chance to honor her and utilize her energy in your life, don’t miss out!

She may not be a deity for the beginner witch, but she may choose you when you least expect it.

Book Of Shadows
Ways To Represent Lilith On Your Pagan Altar

Represent the dark goddess Lilith on your altar. 

This is a simplified PDF, made for easy printing. It's perfect to add to your book of shadows.


What is the story behind Lilith?

Lilith is a figure from Jewish mythology who is said to have been Adam’s first wife. According to some versions of the story, she refused to submit to Adam’s authority and was banished from the Garden of Eden.

Who is Lilith and why is she important?

Lilith is a figure in Jewish mythology and folklore. She is often seen as a symbol of female independence and autonomy, and her story has been used to explore issues related to gender, power, and sexuality.

Is Lilith Lucifer’s daughter?

No, Lilith is not Lucifer’s daughter. While there are some similarities between the two figures in terms of their association with rebellion and independence, they are separate entities in Jewish mythology.

Is Lilith in Greek mythology?

No, Lilith is not part of Greek mythology. She is a figure from Jewish mythology and folklore, and her story is not found in Greek or any other ancient mythologies.

What is Lilith known for in the Bible? Is Lilith the first wife of Adam?

Lilith is not mentioned in the Bible, although there are some interpretations that suggest she may have been the first wife of Adam. However, this is not a widely accepted interpretation and her story is primarily found in Jewish mythology and folklore. Lilith is known for her independent nature and her refusal to submit to male authority