Letting Go Magic: Release Emotional Blocks Fast
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Letting go magic works by dissolving old emotional patterns to create space for new growth. This autumn jar spell combines powerful herbs with EFT tapping to break through stubborn emotional blocks that keep you stuck in painful cycles.
I’ve watched too many witches struggle with the same wounds year after year, carrying emotional baggage like it’s a treasured heirloom. The truth is, some things need to die so better things can live. This letting go jar doesn’t just store your intentions; it actively transforms stagnant energy into fertile ground for what wants to emerge.

Complete Letting Go Jar Recipe
This recipe dissolves emotional blocks while you sleep, working through your subconscious to release what no longer serves your highest good.
Ingredients:
- 1 clear glass jar with tight-fitting lid
- 2 tablespoons dried sage (for clearing old energy)
- 1 small amethyst stone (for emotional healing)
- 1 tablespoon dried lavender (for peace and calm)
- 1 teaspoon dandelion root (for deep detoxification)
- 1 teaspoon dried motherwort (for heart healing)
- 1 tablespoon dried rosemary (for mental clarity)
- 1 tablespoon dried chamomile (for soothing release)
- 1 tablespoon sea salt (for purification)
- Small piece of paper and pen
Instructions:
- Cleanse yourself with a salt bath before beginning
- Write what you’re releasing on the paper, then tear it into small pieces
- Add torn paper to jar first, visualizing it dissolving
- Layer each herb while stating your release intention
- Add amethyst and seal jar with wax or string
- Hold jar during EFT tapping sequence (detailed below)
- Place jar on windowsill where moonlight can reach it
The paper dissolves your old patterns into nothing while the herbs rebuild your emotional foundation. This isn’t just storing intentions; it’s active transformation magic.

Why Seasonal Timing Amplifies Release Work
Autumn equinox energy naturally supports letting go because nature herself is releasing what she no longer needs. The balanced day and night hours create perfect conditions for emotional equilibrium work.
Your nervous system responds to seasonal shifts whether you realize it or not. As daylight decreases, your brain produces different hormones that actually make emotional release easier. The Colorado School of Clinical Herbalism notes that many therapeutic herbs reach peak potency during autumn harvest time.
This isn’t coincidence. Your ancestors timed their healing work with natural cycles because it works faster and goes deeper. Modern witches who ignore seasonal timing often struggle with sluggish results and wonder why their spells feel flat.
Working with Mabon energy means you’re borrowing nature’s own release mechanisms. Trees don’t struggle to drop their leaves; they simply allow the natural process to unfold. Your emotional release can flow just as smoothly when you align with these powerful currents.

Integrating EFT Tapping Into Magical Practice
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) clears energetic blockages through specific acupressure points while you focus on emotional issues. This isn’t new age fluff; it’s based on traditional Chinese medicine principles that recognize how emotions get trapped in your energy system.
The technique works by tapping specific meridian points while stating your problem and then your desired outcome. Research shows EFT can reduce cortisol levels by up to 24% in a single session, which means your stress hormones literally decrease as you tap.
Here’s the basic sequence to use with your jar spell:
Start by tapping the karate chop point on your hand’s outer edge while saying three times: “Even though I carry this old pain, I deeply accept myself.” Then tap each point 7-10 times while repeating your release phrase:
Top of head, eyebrow point, side of eye, under nose, chin point, collarbone, under arm. Use phrases like “I release this tension” or “This old pattern dissolves now.”
I stumbled onto combining EFT with jar spells during a particularly stubborn period of grief work. The tapping seemed to unlock something in the herbs themselves, like they could finally access the emotional energy that needed clearing. The jar began working within days instead of weeks.

Enhanced Herbs for Deeper Emotional Release
These additional herbs target specific emotional patterns that basic sage and lavender can’t always reach. Each one works on different layers of stored trauma and resistance.
Dandelion root acts like an emotional detox, pulling old resentments up from deep storage so they can finally be processed and released. Folk medicine traditions used dandelion specifically for “bitter” emotions that create physical tension in the liver and digestive system.
Motherwort earned its name because it nurtures you through difficult emotional transitions like a protective mother. The Colorado School of Clinical Herbalism documents its use for anxiety that comes from old emotional wounds, especially those involving betrayal or abandonment.
Rosemary doesn’t just clear negative energy; it sharpens your mental clarity so you can see emotional patterns objectively instead of getting lost in dramatic stories about your pain. This herb helps you witness your emotions without drowning in them.
Chamomile soothes the nervous system’s fight-or-flight response that keeps you trapped in emotional reactivity. When your nervous system finally relaxes, deeper healing becomes possible because you’re not constantly defending against perceived threats.
Salt represents the tears you haven’t cried yet. Adding it to your cleansing bath before the ritual helps your body release stored emotional tension through your skin, which is actually your largest detox organ.
Five Techniques for Empowering Your Release Jar
These methods activate your jar’s transformative power instead of just hoping it works on its own. Each technique addresses different aspects of emotional release work.
Herbal Visualization and Grounding connects you to earth energy while preparing your ingredients. Hold each herb and visualize it absorbing specific emotional burdens from your energy field. Feel roots growing from your feet into the earth, carrying away what you’re releasing.
EFT Tapping During Assembly amplifies the release process as you build your jar. Tap through the sequence while adding each ingredient, focusing on different aspects of what you’re letting go. The tapping opens energetic pathways that allow the herbs to access deeper emotional layers.
Intentional Herb Adding with Chants programs each ingredient with specific release commands. As you add dandelion root, chant “Deep roots of pain dissolve and transform.” For motherwort: “My heart heals and grows stronger.” Let each herb absorb your intention before adding the next.
Nature Connection Ritual grounds your work in seasonal earth energy before you begin. Spend five minutes barefoot on grass or soil, breathing deeply and feeling autumn’s natural release energy flowing through your body. This attunes your nervous system to nature’s letting-go frequency.
Sealing and Affirmation Work locks your intentions into the jar while opening space for new growth. After sealing, hold your jar and speak directly to it: “You dissolve what blocks my healing and nurture what wants to grow.” Visualize old energy dissolving like sugar in water while new possibilities crystallize in the empty space.
Working with Your Jar Through Autumn’s Transformation
Your jar continues working as long as autumn energy flows, which means you can deepen the release process over several weeks instead of expecting instant results. This slow dissolution actually works better for deep emotional patterns.
Place your jar where morning sunlight can reach it for activation energy, then move it to moonlight for gentle release work. The alternating light sources create a natural rhythm that mirrors your emotional healing process.
Check in with your jar weekly by holding it during meditation. Notice what emotions surface and use EFT tapping to process anything that feels ready to release. Some people feel lighter within days; others need the full season for complete transformation.
Keep chamomile tea nearby for moments when the release process feels overwhelming. The same herb that’s working in your jar can soothe your nervous system when emotional material surfaces faster than you expected.
Your jar naturally completes its work when autumn ends and winter energy arrives. By then, you’ll have created space for whatever wants to grow in the new year, and your emotional landscape will feel genuinely different rather than just temporarily soothed.

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