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Simple Friendship Spell For Witches

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Friendships require a constant effort to keep them alive. As friendships age and the people in them mature, sometimes the relationship can sour or they can grow apart. This simple friendship spell will help witches improve these important relationships.

I recommend doing this pagan ritual as often as needed. If you feel like your friend may be angry with you, or maybe you’re both sick of being around each other, it is good to give your friend space. But if you have given each other space and there exists an awkward gap between you, this simple friendship spell can really help.

Simple Friendship Spell

Help improve your friendships with this little bit of witchcraft.

This simple friendship spell can help bring two friends closer together again.

Ingredients

  • 1 cup or bowl of water
  • 1 blue candle
  • Lavender or jasmine essential oil
  • A gift given to you by your friend. This can be a lock of hair, a photo, or some other gift. Make sure it is waterproof.
  • Something that you intend to give to your friend, again it should be waterproof.

Directions

First and foremost, since this spell is about improving a friendship, you should get the consent of your friend to perform this spell.

Friendships are based on trust, and subtly manipulating your friend behind their back isn’t a good idea.

Put two drops of your essential oil in the water, and mix it with the bottom of your candle.

Then light your candle. Place both objects in the bowl with the water and essential oil, then say the following:

I call the power of water to bind these two objects together, as it will also bind (friend’s name) and (your name) together in harmonious friendship.

If you don’t like that sentence, feel free to make your own based on your intention

Leave the bowl of water out under a waning moon for one night, then take the objects out.

Keep yours near you, or cling to it during a fight. Give the gift to your friend and tell them to do the same.

A modern witch dressed in a casual outfit and a pointed hat, performing a friendship spell with friends in a cozy indoor setting. The friends are smiling and engaged, surrounded by candles, crystals, and spell books, enhancing the warm and magical atmosphere.
A modern witch dressed in a casual outfit and a pointed hat, performing a friendship spell with friends in a cozy indoor setting. The friends are smiling and engaged, surrounded by candles, crystals, and spell books, enhancing the warm and magical atmosphere.

When To Use This Friendship Spell

  • If your friend has moved far away from you, and you’re having a hard time keeping the friendship alive.
  • Either one of you has done something to hurt the other emotionally.
  • A change in one’s life has caused strain on the friendship, like a death or medical diagnosis.
  • You two simply don’t have a compatible schedule and you are seeing less of one another than you’d like.

As noted in the spell recipe above, you should get the consent of your friend before performing this spell. There are times when you can do a spell behind someone’s back, but in this case you want to work off of the mutual respect you have for each other. This might be hard if you’re still in the broom closet. I have a blog post with tips on telling people that you are a witch.

Once you have performed this spell, it is then up to both of you to spend time together and work through whatever was straining your relationship. Magic can do all the work, but it rarely does. So put some effort in! Hopefully this spell will help you and your friend to find a harmonious relationship with one another. Remember that some friendships have a shelf life, however. If your friendship was meant to end, then not even magic could save it. A friendship that has ended naturally isn’t a failure, but merely a part of the cycles of life. Neither of you are bad people if you have to move on. Give yourself the space and permission you need to move on.

The Science of Friendship

Research has shown that prioritizing friendships is associated with numerous health and well-being benefits. For instance, friends provide emotional support and practical help, which can mitigate feelings of loneliness and contribute to self-esteem and life satisfaction. Friendships can even predict health outcomes to a similar extent as spousal and parent-child relationships. However, the benefits of friendship can vary across different cultural contexts (Frontiers in Psychology)​ (Frontiers)​.

Studies also indicate that the quality of friendships plays a significant role in mental health, particularly during adolescence. High-quality friendships are associated with lower levels of depression and loneliness, underscoring the importance of nurturing these relationships (BMC Public Health)​ (BioMed Central)​. For more on how friendships impact mental health, visit the University of Oxford’s Department of Psychiatry​ (Psych Oxford)​.

By understanding the profound impact of friendships and incorporating magical practices like this spell, witches can work to maintain and strengthen these vital bonds.

A group of friends, including a modern witch, performing a friendship spell in a cozy outdoor setting during the evening. Candles, crystals, and spell books are scattered around, creating a warm and inviting magical atmosphere under the twilight sky.
A group of friends, including a modern witch, performing a friendship spell in a cozy outdoor setting during the evening. Candles, crystals, and spell books are scattered around, creating a warm and inviting magical atmosphere under the twilight sky.

How Can Different Cultural Contexts Influence the Effectiveness and Perception of Friendship Spells?

Friendship, as a universal human experience, is valued across cultures, but the way it is perceived and the benefits derived from it can vary significantly depending on cultural contexts. In many Western cultures, friendship is often seen as a personal choice based on mutual interests and emotional support, whereas in other cultures, it might be deeply intertwined with family ties, social obligations, and community dynamics.

For instance, research indicates that in cultures with higher economic equality and greater indulgence, individuals tend to place a higher value on friendships. These friendships can lead to better health and well-being outcomes compared to those in cultures where friendships are less prioritized. Therefore, a friendship spell in such a supportive cultural environment might be perceived as a powerful tool for enhancing personal bonds and social support.

On the other hand, in cultures where friendship is seen more as a social duty or less prioritized due to other societal structures, the perception of a friendship spell might differ. Here, the effectiveness of the spell could be influenced by the broader social and cultural expectations surrounding relationships. This means that a witch practicing in such contexts might need to consider these cultural nuances to effectively align their magical practices with the cultural values and expectations.

How Can One Balance the Magical and Practical Efforts Required to Maintain a Healthy Friendship?

Balancing the magical and practical aspects of maintaining a friendship involves integrating intentional magical practices with everyday actions that nurture the relationship. Here are some steps to achieve this balance:

  1. Set Clear Intentions: Before performing any spell, clearly define your intentions. This could involve journaling about what you hope to achieve with the spell and how you plan to follow through with practical actions. Setting intentions helps align your magical efforts with your real-world goals.
  2. Regular Communication: Use the spell as a starting point to initiate or improve communication with your friend. Regular check-ins, open conversations, and actively listening to each other are crucial practical steps that support the magical work.
  3. Create Rituals Together: Integrate your friend into your magical practice if they are open to it. For example, you could perform a friendship ritual together during significant phases like the full moon. This not only strengthens your magical bond but also enhances your real-world connection.
  4. Follow Up with Actions: After performing the spell, plan activities that reinforce your friendship. This could be simple acts like sending a thoughtful message, planning a get-together, or sharing experiences that you both enjoy. These actions ensure that the energy raised during the spell is actively channeled into maintaining the friendship.
  5. Reflect and Adjust: Regularly reflect on the state of your friendship and be open to making adjustments. If the relationship is showing signs of strain, consider both magical and practical ways to address the issues. This could involve tweaking your spell work or changing how you interact with your friend.

By combining these practical efforts with your magical practices, you create a holistic approach to nurturing your friendships.

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